I’ve realized I’ve been doing it all wrong. This year, I think I finally got it right. Self love. It’s just as important—if not more essential— than any love you can ever provide or feel for another. Because we have to start somewhere. we love, love. So much that we go looking for it in … Continue reading

wanted you to hold me… accountable. Instead I hold myself…accountable. It makes the most sense. We go searching for something… someone, other than ourselves Which insinuates that we believe we aren’t capable of self-care, of self-love. If this is true, then tell me how you could even begin to count on or love another? I … Continue reading mentorship

The power the book refers to is love. Beyond love, I think of all the things within me that I am capable of. I also think about how I’ve collected the root of life lessons throughout life. What’s that saying? Fall teaches us how beautiful change can be, and then I think about how you … Continue reading

abracadabra: An interjection commonly used by magicians that manifests their trick. This derives from "avra kadavra" an Aramaic or Hebrew origin meaning, “it will be created in my words.” There was something about this that stopped me in my tracks, no, not literally… I was in bed. It was refreshing.. it will be created in … Continue reading avra kadavra

I have been experiencing such a plethora of synchronicities in the past few weeks. I would acknowledge them, feel their presence and then carry on with the rest of my day. My life. Because I don’t feel like I am on the right path, I don’t feel confident in what my future will look like. … Continue reading Godfidence

....If you had power, what would you need me for? Failure is an event, not a destiny. This is good news because we all fail sooner or later. If we are honest, we all fail over and over again. It is not our initial failure that ruins us, it’s what we do next after the … Continue reading Church notes on “failure”

There was a time when I was afraid to talk about things that mattered to me, I was afraid to share with the world things I cared about. That is how much more I cared about what people thought of me. There was a time when I was afraid to talk about things I wanted … Continue reading Into existence

Between moving, writing my thesis and job hunting, I am mentally and physically exhausted. In the midst of all of these things I have decided to make the effort to re-introduce myself to things that I love. Last week I started a 1,000 piece puzzle(I moved yesterday and didn't finish it), this morning I am … Continue reading Re-Introducing yourself to the things you love

Okay, so I received this definition from Wikipedia.com (yaAaS I use wiki, judgmental free zone). However.. Wiki defines The bystander effect: The bystander effect or bystander apathy, is a social psychological phenomenon in which individuals are less likely to offer help to a victim when other people are present. The greater the number of bystanders, … Continue reading The con of neutrality